CODENAME: TOMATOSTELLAR: It's March 2019 and About Time I Write My First Post For the Year

Ano ba ang pinaka ayos na comeback blogpost after being away for few months?

Ano pa, edi random thought vomit! Pero sige na nga, wait, I’ll try to gather my thoughts.

Project CKGA
Wedding Day
Marriage
Honeymoon
Other random shit

Medyo mahirap mag blog pag madilim and gutom. Also, crap - na-turnoff ko yung touchpad ng laptop ko and I don't know how to turn it back on.

Wala pagkain, so I guess, iinom ko nalang ng tubig 'tong hunger pangs.

Okay, first topic, Project CKGA - nakaka underwhelm, yun na yon. 5 Posts? Well, I started late na rin kasi. Sabi nung ibang mga graduate, nakaka miss daw wedding preps. LOL, K girl. I still remember how exhausted I was nung mga final weeks before our wedding. As in, naiiyak na ko kasi gusto ko na matulog, but there's always something that needs to be finished. Medyo na cut short siguro "wedding high" namin kasi nag Christmas na, then New Year. Do I miss the preps? Sakto lang. A couple of friends who are preparing for their upcoming wedding had been asking. Enthusiastic naman ako sa pag share ng experience namin, but naghohold back din, coz kanya kanyang trip. Mas maganda ma-discover nila on their own; lam mo yun, I think disadvantage rin yon for me sa dami ng sinearch ko, may mga bagay na di naman na talaga kailangan, nakiki sabay lang ako. Off the top of my head - wedding wands! *rolls eyes hanggang sa makita ang brain* -- as in, bakit ko pa ba pinush pag bili ng materials non?! uh huh, di ko nagamit yung 10pcs na nagawa ko, kasi pangit na pangit ako, sa gawa ko. gaaaahh.. change topic!!!!!!

Siguro, ang favorite kong part ng preps namin, and I should've made a separate post about this, is nung nag Discovery Weekend kami. Preapare for your marriage, not just the wedding. I've attended several retreats growing up; from highschool, and family retreat nung active pa sila Mommy and Daddy sa group nila. So medyo meron na 'kong idea on what could go on. For boss, it's somewhat new experience. Meron nung collge kami, but not sure what his take nun, or if he was really engaged ba sa mga retreat namin -- I think isa lang ang nasamahan nya?
Itong activity siguro yung marerecommend ko sa lahat ng nagpprepare, kahit hindi Catholic.

Wedding Day! I've decided to make a separate post na lang about this. kthx.

Marriage, ayan na. Nung kabataan ko. solid ang tingin ko sa marriage. Growing up, oblivious ako sa mga marital problems and broken family. Sa kinalakihang street ko kasi, "buo" mga family. Until I grew a bit, and someone close left her family. And nung tumatanda na, marami na nakilala, naging "not shocking" na for me, if someone was raised by a single parent. Kumbaga, alam ko na nangayari yon, but I said YES when he proposed.
Sya kasi, we can never be sure about anything in this life, pero sya, I think sya yung katumbas nung SOLID na alam ko when I was younger. Hindi ko na nga namalayan kung kelan nangyari yun.
Turning 3 months na kami as married couple. Pinag hahandaan ko parin yung winawarning nilang adjustment phase. Sabi nga sa isang topic nung DW, iba iba tayo ng Family of Origin, so baka akala ko ayos lang na ganito, sya pala hirap na. Sana lang, hindi sya yung nasa struggling side, kasi sobrang chill ko lang. Hindi ako nahihirapan - I mean, sana may exempted sa stage na yon, kung meron man, ako siguro - or too soon to tell? H'wag naman sana.

Honeymoon - yep, separate topic na lang rin

ORS - as in super duper random - photo dump here we go